Dreaming of a boyfriend cheating means you are finding signs to lose trust in him. Are you communicating less and less? Do you find him doing activities that are outside the normal routine? Some times, it is you changing, and the other party has to change and go their separate ways. In the waking hours, confront him and see if things can be fixed. Otherwise, make the hard decision and move on.
I had a dream today that me and my boyfriend had gone to a camp with people we did not know and as soon as we arrived he left and had sex with a girl that goes to my school witch she also has a little boy, it was wierd becouse he does not know who she is, in my dream i begged him a cried for him but nothing semmed to work fo him to stay with me. and thru ot the dream i suffered becouse of him that out 1 year reletionship went down the drain i woke up and i was shook i turned and went back to sleep i keept on dreamung the same thing but know it was with a different girl . they would makeout and stuff infront of me and i was just broken about that . i really need to know what this means…..PLZ HELP
I just recently had a dream of my boyfriend and my twin sister having a thing. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months, but in the dream this was going on around our 2 or 3 months. I know this because she’s the only female I allowed him to have on his snapchat other than his family. In my dream, I first found out when they were acting in a weird friendly way when him and I were hanging out. She started to undress and put something else on right in front of him, and I told her not to do that and yelled at him for looking. Then I went through their Snapchat messages where I found out they were talking dirty and my twin sister said something like “if only I started talking to you before she did 3 months ago, we would be the ones dating.” We did talk for a month though before we began dating. Then right after checking their Snapchat messages I confronted them about their behavior but not the messages. They basically acted like it was okay and stared to show it more that they were more than friends. It hurt my feelings,so I told my boyfriend I was upset and didnt know what to do. I also said that I was gonna go back to my ex if this was really happening because I wanted to make him mad. So I walked away, and when I came back they were in the bathroom and I heard moaning. I opened the door and they were having sex in the bathroom and I started crying and they continued like I wasn’t there. I began fighting them both while they were having sex but my punches felt weak so I stopped and they continued having sex. That’s when I woke up.
I also had a dream a couple months ago that my boyfriend was cheating on me with his ex girlfriend, and then I found out that he had sex with her while we were talking right before we started dating. I didn’t know what to do since we weren’t dating, and now I’m not sure if I should continue the relationship. I haven’t had that dream again, but I have had the boyfriend and my sister dream more than once but they were different.
I dreamed I was home with my mom and my bf. Went to sleep thinking he’d follow me in bed. Woke up hearing them having sex. Freaked out went to talk to my mom and asked her if they did and she answered like nothing they did was wrong tried to beat them both but couldn’t since my punches blocked everytime. I woke up shaking and traumatised… what does it mean ???
I dreamt my fiancé was cheating on me with another man. I walked in on what appeared to be an orgy, but only him and the other man were engaging. I confronted my fiancé and he confirmed he was cheating on me with the man and his girlfriend. My fiancé also told me he was in love and leaving me for my male client in the dream as well.
i had a dream i went to the store and came back my sister told me she fucked my boyfriend. i confronted him , he wouldn’t give me a straight answer he kept like avoiding it. they n i asked him again and he denied it. i went to my sister again and she told me the whole story so i confronted him again. i started crying and hitting him but my punches felt weak everything felt weak like it wasn’t hurting him. i want to know why i has this dream because i woke up crying and it scared me so bad.
I’ve been having dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me the last 3-4 nights. I want to know why i keep dreaming about this. So heres what happens in the dream, I come home to him hanging out with a female friend of his from a work. At first i was concerned that another woman was in my house but then i was fine, because they were just chilling together innocently and he introduced me to her and she was very friendly. After the introduction we all hung out together for awhile and she went home, after she went home i wanted to have sex with my boyfriend, but when i tried to advance him he told me he was tired and just wanted to go to bed. I was a bit upset and began to feel insecure. So i took a shower and went to bed, the next day i woke up, went out, came back home. When i get home the house was quite, so i started looking for my boyfriend when i got to our bedroom the same woman from his job was sleeping next to him but they had no covers on them. They slept still while i walked in the room and shouted my boyfriends name but he didnt respond, but when she heard me and turned over and sat up, when she got upthen he woke up for her to check on her. I was fucking livid at that point and i was screaming and he had not a care in the world. But the woman was concerned and kept saying they were just friends and she was just tired and not feeling well and that my boyfriend had told her she could go lay down and sleep on the bed. There was some wound on her abdomen and my boyfriend started looking at it he was completely nonchalant about the arguement that was happening between us. I made her leave and he continued to ignore me and went to go back to sleep. He layed for a while, i was so filled with rage and hurt and confusion, i jumped on him in the bed and i beat the shit out of him and beat beat beat and pounded on him. He had no chance of a defense. After i was dine beating him i wished tgat i hadnt because i knew he still didnt care. Then i wake up…
I just recently had a dream of my boyfriend and my sister having a thing. When i found out about it, it was there second time doing something ( the first was head & second they was having sex) i was completely LIVID. He acted like he didnt care that i found out. Everything about him started to look as if he pretended everything for these 2 years and didnt love me nor cared about me at ALL! I asked if he loved my sister and he laughed and said No that he would be stupid to. After that i kept hitting him with things around the house. I left with just a few things and was driving by when i witnessed he was going to a fuck party house where my sister was located. So i got out the car and ran to find her before he did and when i did i asked her if it was true and she admitted it shamfully that she did thats when i started wailing on her. I left and ended up talking with some girl in to which gave my number to (I actually liked this female) until she said she couldnt help me out because she is only allowed to drive her car so much a day. So instead we took the bus and i started noticing i had lost my phone and electronic vapor. After that i called my mother and she told me to just come back home and start over but at the exact same time of her saying that she was making excuses for my sister of why she did what she did and that was because shes slow.
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I have had two dreams in the past three days about my boyfriend cheating or suggesting a love for someone else.
In my first dream my boyfriend told another girl (my best friend) he loved her (super dramatically saying how he loved her more than he had ever loved anyone, how strong there love was etc.) and he didn’t care that i was sat their or that i ran away.
In the second dream I found out that he had cheated on me with another one of my friends. I got told that they had slept together and confronted them both and again neither of them seemed to care that much. My boyfriend excepted me to stay with him but i was super upset and just wanted away from him. My friend seemed to have no regrets, did not apologies or anything.
My friend from the first dream has kissed my boyfriend before but this was before we were together and my friend from the second dream has got with a guy i liked before which upset me. The dreams seem so real, can’t help wondering why i am having them.
Last night, I had a dream my mother and my boyfriend got married, had sexual intercourse and then I stabbed her in the head. I didn’t remember me actually killing him in the dream, but my mom was still alive, and I whipped her really hard with some kind of cord or rope and finished killing her, then called the police and reported two homicides. What does this dream mean?
I had a dream that my boyfriend started having sex with a bunch of different girls and no matter how many times I told him it hurt me he didn’t care. Then he lied to me and said he stopped having sex with girls but I found out that this blond haired girl was skyping him and she wore skanky clothing and I took his phone and told her off I was so angry. I keep having dreams where my boyfriend hurts me and does not care about my feelings.
I have a kid with my boyfriend, last night I had a dream that out of nowhere he brings a girl to our house by the name of Charlotte. I don’t know any Charlotte’s in real life. He say’s he wants to be with her and not me, but that she will be staying in our house. Me and her get into a fight and I end up hurting her, so she leaves. But she seems to come right back.
Another dream I had was me, my boyfriend and all of his close guy buddies were sitting in a living room along with some blonde girl whose name I don’t know. I am laying on the couch with my daughter and all of a sudden my boyfriend goes up to the girl and proposes to her. All of his guy friends look straight to me, like as in a wtf? kinda way. She says yes as if it wasn’t a surprise. I get up and start walking downstairs and I hear one of the guys say to my boyfriend, You just f***ed up.
It’s been a week of me having dreams like this… Either he proposes to someone else, brings a different girl home, or just leaves me.
I had a dream I walked to my boyfriend on the phone and he wouldn’t tell me who it was and when I took it . It was his EX girlfriend and than I broke up with him than later he kept bugging me to stay but than he called her again but the second time he cried because she lost hope in them and I was pissed because why do you care and than I walked away ! What does my dream mean ???
I had a dream that my boyfriend was cheating on me with my ant I’ve been thinking that for a while now I’ve noticed him n her doing really odd things? So i confronted them n they both say nothing ever happened but i honestly think other wise i keep having dreams that they fucked and In my dreams I’ve seen messages they even said they did!? My ant said she’s not a fried to emit that she fucked my boyfriend and he said he just did it because he was mad and she was there at the moment my mom and dad new after me telling them and the weird thing is my dads brother was in my dream as well he was just listening to everything that was going on and said nothing i woke up in tears and my boyfriend asked what was wrong and said to stop crying i told him what i had drempt and he said he hugged me and said i would never do that i keep asking him over and over if he did he keep saying NO got a lil up set and i said i dont believe you…..what dose my dream trying to tell me??
I had this dream me and my boyfriend had sex and soon after he’s fucking this other girl . I push the girl I hit my boyfriend repeatively and I tell him were through and I just keep to my self the try of the dream and he tries nothing to converse with me .
Keep in mind that previous day me and my boyfriend been having arguments , hes now a coach of a hughschool football team and that seems to get most of his attention and when he gets me mad ill just hang up the phone to control my self . I got home sent him an “I love you message ” took a shower and told him I was going to sleep and so I did. That’s when I had the dream .
I had this dream that me and my boyfriend were at a party and I left and I came back and his dick smelled like pussy and one of his friends had told me ” yeah he fucked some girl ” and when I woke up I broke up in tears and my boyfriend isn’t the type to communicate at all so what does that mean? Please help me I’m in tears right now. I have a daughter and I’m pregnant again with his second child. Please help me
It seems like all these dreams have another thing in common besides a cheater; also the fact that after you confront your boyfriend it seems like he couldn’t care less. Maybe were scared of that power and control loss and the sadness spiral we’d face after. Watching someone you love fall for someone else is a horrible feeling, and i see it every night. Each nightmare i wake up 100% convinced it actually happened
Every night at least 2 or 3 of my dreams are about my boyfriend cheating. Years back for months it use to be with his ex now it’s becoming random women some I know and others I’ve never seen. I’m sooo tired of these dreams because I can wake up from one and go back to sleep only to having another one.
My girlfriend and I have a great relationship, but recently she started having lesbian/bisexual dreams. She and I talked about it but came up with nothing. We are both wondering what it means. Can anybody help us?
The past couple weeks i have been having the most bizarre dreams. They all have to do with my boyfriend. I’m madly inlove with him and he’s gone behind my back multiple times to flirt with other girls. He hasn’t done it again since i’ve caught him the last time. i’m just very suspicious and worried constantly. But let’s get to the dream part. I was lying in bed next to him and his facebook was up on the television. (weird i know)This girl that he was talking to in the past, messaged him and i saw it. I questioned him to why he was still talking to her and he didn’t seem to care much. I went absolutely nuts and started punching him in the face. And i couldn’t stop. I woke up with the most awful feeling. He went to give me a kiss and i didn’t even want to kiss him back. I feel like this dream has changed the way i feel about our relationship.
Hi I’ve had a couple of similar dreams and I want to know the answer also.
Yesterday night, I had a dream that my boyfriend came over as well as a friend to spend the night. As my friend was showering, my boyfriend and I tried having sex, but she had gotten out of the shower too soon. We all slept in the same bed, and as I was sleeping, they were kissing, and he touched her, as he was touching himself. I was utterly mortified. I screamed, and kicked them out of my house. Surprisingly, my family was around, and some friends were outside. I tried telling my friends, and as I did that, my boyfriend and friend left non caring to the notion that our relationship terminated. At first, I was hysterically crying, but I soon was okay with what occurred. The next day I confronted the two, and they denied it. I was disgusted, then I woke up… What does that mean?
Lately I’ve been dreaming that my boyfriend cheated on my with a close family member or friend of mine. not sure what this means.
I have been having the same dream for the past few weeks, which is odd because I normally don’t remember my dreams. In my dream my boyfriend hires a new employee, she is blonde and absolutely gorgeous, and he begins spending a lot of time with her, staying late etc. so I invite her over and discover she and I enjoy working out so i am working out with Her and my boyfriend comes in and sits on the couch watching us. She starts smiling and flirting wIth him and he flirts back which makes me angry so I storm out and tell him I’m tired of his behavior. I drive for awhile and return to find them naked on the couch obviously having just finished having sex. I become very upset and he continues laying there with her kissing her and saying I didn’t think you cared and we were done anyway.
I’ve been with my other half for 5 years now, we live together but in the past there has been issues with him still messing around with his kids moms (2 kids with two different girls). Almost constantly since this happen I have had dreams of him cheating on me with them in different scenarios. We have had discussions about this on several occasions and he has said that he has nothing to do with them except the relationship of parents. I flat out don’t believe him due to our past so I’m not sure if the dreams are because of the mistrust I have with him…can you interpret this for me plsssss…..
I had a dream last night that my boyfriend cheated on me . But the weird thing is is I was cheating on him with my ex that I still miss till this day but I still love my boyfriend too. It’s really confusing. I’m always upset about this not just a dream but how I miss my ex and love him still but I love my boyfriend too. My ex and my boyfriend are friends and my ex told my boyfriend the other day he said man I don’t want anything to come between us but I love Leanne and I always have, don’t break her heart. Me and my ex had lots of probs, he cheated on me. And now I’m with my boyfriend. I’ve been having a lot of dreams this past week about my ex. & I saw him a week or two ago. In my dream he grabbed me and started kissing me & things and it was like I never wanted the dream to end but I stopped him when he did and told him I didn’t feel right about this. I’m so confused right now.
I have been having dreams non stop of my boyfriend. I would wake up out of a dream about him and go back into another one . At first they were good. Then all of a sudden they became bad . Now I have been having thoughts that my Bestfriend and boyfriend have had sex and they won’t tell me. And my last dream was I caught them about to have sex and I woke up in tears. But the same day that happened I found out he didn’t really love me and he’s been lying to me for about 5 months . So I’m very confused on if my dreams are signs or if it really happened or just my anxiety taking over. Someone please help. I’m worried to death.
I had a dream that the man i dating for 2 years now have a threesome sex with two woman infront of me recently. it was not the 1st time i dreamed about it. before i also had a dream that he had two woman in bed and i was kicked out in bed and the 2nd is he goes to a barber shop and find out it was a strip bars. he was with so many bargirls inside and when he sees me he was just staring at me and the more i was jealous he makes me more pissed and kiss one of the girl infront of me.. i dont know what to think? i think it was a instinct dream. when i dreamed about that being kicked out in bed i also found out that he had been dating a bar girl when i was in my hometown.. i dont know what to think but it bothers me a lot now.. hope someone help me interpret this dreams.. Thank you so much
My boyfriend and I have had a steady relationship of about a year and a half now but we have been going out for 4 years in total. We had a rocky first couple of years but he’s loyal as loyal can be. This morning I dreamt he was cheating whilst also dreaming another part of the dream. His older sister just recently got a double bed and I dreamt that i went over to visit him to find him lying cuddling a girl he had told me was no threat. Then she left and I asked him if he had cheated. He denied it at first but it was obvious something was going on. I kept asking him, telling him that even if he just kissed her, it was cheating. Then he admitted it. I love his parents so we were supposed to meet his mother for shopping, so I went along with him anyway, but kept talking to him about it n getting upset. Texted his mum so that hopefully she would provide me with some comfort when we met her. My heart was torn, because I really didn’t think he would ever cheat. His mother was cross n when I woke I began to cry, glad it wasn’t real. It’s scared me. We see eachother quite often but now that he’s moving to tech we will see eachother less, talk less and I’m afraid of one particular individual that he will see more. She wasn’t the person in the dream, but that’s how he sees her but she’s after more than friends from him. I don’t know what it means though, would love some insight.
Thanks.
I keep having this repeating dream of my boyfriend ,of 3 years, ignoring me and then I go to his house to see whats up and i find him on top of a girl and I just attack him. But last night the dream got worse. Him and my best friend kept kissing right on front of me. At my own house. And then I kick them out and they are both laughing at me. I know I am insecure about our relationship cause a couple months ago he broke up with me and pursued another women, but came crawling back. I dont know what to think anymore. Am I strictly insecure? Or is my unconscious self picking up the signs again?Please help me, I hate feeling this way.
I’m young and all and I just need some experienced answers please. I’ve been with my fiancé over 2 years. We are both in the Army National Guard and both have recently came home from training (we were away from eachother for 10 months) I’ve never had this in my past relationships, One was even 3 years long. Before we left I had 1 dream about him cheating but it wasn’t descriptive. Now after training I’ve had three dreams since we have moved in together recently, and each time they get more an more vivid and real, I even heard girls names in my dreams and saw where he hid their numbers so I would not find out… I have had trust issues and they have gotten worst because he’s not the same man Since training he’s less caring and more distant… I always talk to him but he thinks it’s a joke. Everything I have a dream it feels so real… When I was younger my mom had dreams like this and my dad was cheating. I don’t know what to feel or how to treat this situation. Can I have any tips please
Help! I keep having dreams he’s speaking to other girls behind my back!
It’s happened two nights in a row and their so vivid it’s horrible: in my first dream he says how he was speaking to some girl who he likes better the me and he was asking me whether he should go out with her
and in my 2nd dream I saw his phone and he’d been speaking to another girl I knew across text with kisses and flirting with one another. And anger just arupted in me (in my dream) and I started beating him up punching him in the face etc for doing this to me because he was grinning. I also beat up the girl.
These dreams are so vivid and I feel every bit of emotion, can someone explain please?:(
I had a dream in which my boyfriend and the mother of child, whom have been broken up for many years and apparently hate each other, were flirting with each other and it seemed like she was showing off the fact that she could flirt with him. What does this mean?
I keep dreaming that my boyfriend wants to leave and be with someone else. We’ve lived together for about a year been together for three. A month ago we got into a big fight and he left and we both agreed to give us a break but he was only gone for two days when he realized he didn’t wanna be without me and asked to come back home to try and work it out but ever since that these dreams are just haunting me what do these dreams mean?
I fell into a deep sleep earlier this morning and it felt like I woke up to my alarm but I was in a weird house. I sat up and saw my bf. Apparently in the dream I was getting up in a dream for school (which makes sense since today it Monday and my sisters alarm was going off so I got up but we don’t have school today) so for some reason I wanted to have sex. I don’t really know why. But I got up and went to school, but I really wanted to have sex so I ran back home and knocked on the window and I saw him on the bed talking. This girl that was all dressed up in a cute bra and lacy underwear was there and I don’t know if he didn’t hear me or if he completely ignored me and just purposely wanted to hurt me so I pulled out my phone and recorded some of it so he couldn’t try to tell me otherwise and I broke the window and screamed at him and I walked away and called him but it was like he didn’t even care and he told me that this girl was his wife and I then woke up crying.
i have these dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me and in my dreams as i try and confront him i can never get to him. like he keeps disappearing or getting further away from me. i see his face but never get to talk to him…he just disappears.
I had a crazy dream that my boyfriend of 2 years, was with another girl and we were on holiday just the three of us and they were kissing, holding hands, buying each other presents in front of me as if it was normal. I’ve never awoken from a dream that had felt so real, It was so bizarre, I cannot explain why I would have such a dream. Maybe somewhere deep down which I don’t know about I have a trust issue with him perhaps? When I mentioned to him that I had a weird dream and told him what it was about. He just said that I was being silly and need to get these thoughts out of my head, but I haven’t ever speculated any of these thoughts.
I had a dream the other day where I cought my mom being with my boyfriend ?I would like to know what it mean I try looking it up and I don’t find any meaning its been bugging a lot?
Hi I’ve dreamed 3 diff times this week of my husband cheating. The sad thing hes done it before& in the past when I’ve dreamed of him cheating it was always true it was like if I was getting hinted????? I dont know if it’s just trust issues!
I had a dream that I was at a party with really close friends and my boyfriend and some girl who is left to the bathroom, he was taking for ever to come out so a friend told me to go check up on him to see if he’s ok when I walked in the shower was on so I opened the curtain and he was naked with another girl what does that mean ! 🙁
kern is the person i truely want to be with but these signs in my dreams feel so real i think it is the actual person in life he is doing these things with what should i really do cz i realy want this relationship to work out:(
i dreamed that my boy friend kissed another girl who i think he might be cheating on me with i asked him if they are having a secret relationship and he said no. i told one of my friend to call her and she said yes they were 2gether what should i do nw what should i believe.
I dreamed that my Bf didn’t juss want me but another girl as well and that when he first told.me he said he lived both and I didn’t knoe what to say but I didn’t object and the more I thought about it the more I hated it and she ended up pregnant by him and I wanted to tell him he had to choose one or the other but I don’t remember actually telling him in the dream. I’m a little freaked out what can this mean!?
that is so sad chick i really no how u feel what can i say investigate and see what happens ok
Hey everyone. So iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years and were doing really good. But for some reason I had 2 dreams in 1 night of him cheating and leaving me. I mean I do have some doubts in our relationship and I am scared of losing him and we’ve had problems before about not being able to be truthful to one another but we set it aside and moved forward. I have had previous dreams of him cheating on him and I just want some answers. So can anyone please help me !! Please and thank you 🙂
idk chick but what u said i really think dat he had intensions 4 cheating and leaving mayb bcz his eyes were on sum1 else and on the other hand i think u were jes guilty of doing the saame bt i hope thing work out i really really do:)
Hey for the past two days I’ve been having dreams my boyfriend of 2 and ahalf years is cheating on me.first dream was he wasn’t answering my calls or text and cone to find out he’s at my friends house sleeping with her( they DONT know eachother in reality) in the dream I finally go intouch with him but he answers talking all slured then hung up in my face and that was it I woke up with my body jerking I felt so hurt.(in reality I dont trust him) now we only see eachother on the weekends and we hardly talk.for. the past 3 days I haven’t heard from him he hasn’t called and when I call no answer.I called his job he answered hears my voice and hung up in my face.he is one of those Jamaican jerks.NOW THE SECOND DREAM was him and another female( from a Caribbean movie) and I were in the room he walk in with just his boxers and the female started giving him oral sex I then got up slapped him in the face really hard and asked what the Fu*k is he doing I then woke up with my heart beating out my chest…what’s going. On here?
I’ve had several dreams about my husband cheating on me and it’s always with this same girl…(a close person to our family) lets just say and I’m just to the point where I’m thinking too much about it I would like to trust them both but why is it that is always this friend??? I’ve asked my husband but yes he tells me I’m too jealous or to insecure. But when we are at get togethers I always catch her glancing at him or smiling at him. And sometimes when its me and her it’s fine when he comes around she starts talking bout guys liking her outta nowhere and makes me think she trying to make him jealous I don’t know. And in my husband I’ve notice he shaves for work now when he wouldn’t before but on his days off with me he doesn’t so that also upsets me. I’m going crazy. In the end I know I have his love but my feelings and sometimes dreams win every single time Ans we end up arguing ..HELP???
Im in love with my boyfriend, but i keep having dreams with really attractive guys ive never met. In one o them the guy was thin and had short black hair and we were in the shower together. But in another dream, the same guy was the evil person. Now im having a dream with a blonde guy… He is blonde and has freckles. He was being pushy and stuff wanting me to break up with my boyfriend.. But i said no but he made me hang out with him and i ended up liking it a lot. We ended up dating behind his back.
I’ve had dreams of my husband cheating. I hope he never has but I believe it was him having doubt and acting talking online to other chicks probably out of bordum but I stopped having them long ago.
I had a dream I saw my boyfriend eating at a restaurant which was in a house with his work buddies and everyone was in their correctional uniform and when I called him he told me he was working but I didn’t tell him I saw him at the restaurant. I snuck out of my house later on and it was already going to be sunrise and I saw him sneaking out of the house in his basketball shorts and regular t shirt and I ran to him and he didn’t expect to see me and was shocked and I screamed at him and yelled did you have sex and he mumbled yeah and then out loud he said he accidentally fell asleep and that he didn’t do anything and tight when I was about to punch him I woke up and jerked a punch and haven’t been able to sleep since 4 hours ago. Any help please?
i keep having dreams where my bf’s cheating on me. –*were sitting in a pizza place and hes going through messages on his phone and i see one wheres hes telling some girl he misses her and he called her babe. so i asked him who that was and he said just a friend so i let it slide, then he kept going and i saw more messages to different girls such as “i love you sexy body” “miss you beautiful” “i love you.. you are my one and only” “i love that pic ;)”
** what do these mean? he’s said those things to me which i find weird and he’s not the type to cheat. but these dreams are refusing to let me sleep! help?
So I had a dream that I was going to a dance with my boyfriend, but went shopping before it started. so I didn’t see him all day. Then when I came back, I could hear him having sex with a girl while I was in the bathroom at my own house. I then went into the room and he was laying down naked but the girl disappeared. I don’t know if he would cheat because we’ve been together for a year and he always tells me he would never cheat. I mean if I accuse him at any point he starts to cry out of fustration and says I’m the one he knows he wants. But he always goes to college, being a year older than me, and it’s hard to trust him.
I had this weird dream that my best friend’s boyfrind had been cheating on her with ME ! I don’t talk much with her boyfriend ’cause she’ll get jealous, but eventhough I have my own guy, but what does it mean ?!
I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and last night i had a dream that he cheated on me with another girl. The girl admitted they are sleeping together, but my boyfriend lied and said it wasnt true. But then i walked in on them while shagging. I tried to punch and slap him, but no matter how much force i put into hurting him, i couldnt make any impact.
i woke up, got angry, cause i was like.. ‘that wanker, hes cheated on me!’ then i was like, ohh it was a dream. Then slept some more 🙂 BOOM
Hello Ladies, I understand you may be concern about the dreams you are having about your significant other and which you should. I once was in your shoes with my Ex Fiance (GOD) was basically showing me what I was getting myself in to. And ladies it was dreams after dreams I would ask all the time and continue to do research than I started to see the dreams were actually warnings. Because sure enough he had a lot of friend Girls. And going to south beach very frequently and recieving phone calls 12-3 am I started getting more signs even more as we got close to out wedding. Thank Goodness Im done there’s more I can write a book! But it’s basically like our intuition although men do have dreams similar to ours. It’s time to move on because he/ she I NOT the One for you. Im no longer with him…. And those dreams are NO MORE!
I had a dream that my fience and my sister slept together and she got pregnant. Then when I found out I beat my sister up and he left me for her to help raise his child.
i have been dating my bf for 9 weeks we use to text and see each other all the time then he would just come over on sundays then he didnt come one sunday and i texted him and he wouldnt text me back so my sis asked what was up with sunday and he said his mom took his phone and when she called his phone he answered and when she said his name he hung up on him i havent herd from him or seen him in 3 weeks and im worried becuz every guy i have dated cheated on me and i liked him cuz he was funny random and sweet and i never want to lose him i have had 3 dreams that he cheated on me with girls i didnt know and i feel like going to his house but i cant becuz his mom hates me becuz my use to be friend lied and i have no way to talk to him he hasnt been online so i dont know if i should move on or stay and cry becuz i miss him soooo much help:(
i had this terrible dream that i walked into the room and my boyfriend of 1 year was giving oral to another girl….she was way more better loooking than me…i was so hurt…in the dream he didnt even want me he wanted her…
So I had a bad dream last night I was so pissed off ! so me and my cousin were waiting for my boyfriend to pick us up from the mall,
and for some reason he wasnt answering my calls and was taking forEVER, so we waited and waited, then he finally had got there and seriously it smelled like ass in his car like really fucking horrible and it was all foggy inside and his hair was all messed up and marks on his windows
as if he had his hands on them so when we got in I was
like yelling and you and hitting him cause I guess he
was having sex with another girl that’s why he wasnt answering my calls or anything, so the last thing I told
Him was I didn’t know sex smelled that bad and walked
out…bleh I woke up like wtf 🙁 I don’t know what that dream was all about but it sucked really bad..
Omg this is f rd ustratinv I had a dream that my boyfriend and my mom were trying to sleep with each other in my own house in my own bed and we were tring to watch a movie but they kept getting close n smiling at each other and trying to spoon under the covers n I would separate them and pull them away id slap my mom in the face n then id slap him and my mom would just laugh n then finally I kicked her out and followed her and asked why and she said he started it and she just kept going n she said she loved him n I confronted my bf and I wouldnt stop slapping his face n he finally said because of me he tried to because he is lonely n he wanted to have sex just like that in real life I dont talk to my mom ne more because of her new boyfriend n me n my bf have been together 4 years n I have dreams like this regularly but never with my mom its wierd wat does this mean
I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. A few months ago I started having dreams about him cheating on me and us breaking up. I am still having these dreams every single night. I even day dream about it. Is this a sign that I have trust issues and we need to discuss it? Or is this a sign that I need to move on? Someone please answer I feel very confused. I am female, sixteen and Roman Catholic.
Broke up with bf a month ago. He was talking n flirting to his coworkers n now they are dating. I had a dream jst now that i saw them having while his mom n dad n me was there. Mom n i jst look each other. what i did in my dreams is i take off the blanket n saw him inside her. I woked up crying…so painful. Why i have this dream? Whats that mean? when i had a dream like that eventually happen n its true. But when i ask him jst to be honest with me he said he is jst talkin with her n nothing happen yet but i know its not true coz he lied to me many times in the past.
i had a dream about my boyfriend cheating on me by entering a girl from behind with me right there in the room but i didnt see it i saw a shadow of it but then he took off with the other girl..i scared help please!!
I’ve been have cheating dreams since summer( no one specific) and I told my boyfriend about it but it’s august now and I had a dream he was hanging out with two of his friends that were girls and I was pretty much ignored in my dream. Im scared for what it means. I wake up in sweats every time. Is he really cheating on me or am really insecure. And we go to different colleges in two differ states. Help! It’s driving me crazy!
well i just had this dream last night and it dealt with my boyfriend well we were in a car and i was in the back seat and this girl was in the passenger seat and he was flirting to her in front of me. i remember saying ” were done” and all.. then i remember asking him if he wanted better than me and he said before i drop the bomb but honestly yeah i do. and i woke up horrified. what does this really mean or is there a meaning at all?
I had a dream that my boyfriend was cheating on me…. and it may sounds weird, but that he was cheating on me with what was one person, who kept morphing into 2 other people. I know every one of these people in my waking life. When I went to try and fight them, it was like I couldn’t fight at all. It was like I was fighting them in slow motion. As much hurtful things I could say to him, nothing would phase him. In real life, we own a pit bull. He loves that dog more than anything in the world. So as revenge I kidnapped him. Which isn’t really kidnapping because I own him too, but nonetheless I took him. I took off with Jax and our other dog Suzie up to my friends house in Washington. I wish I had my own dream interpreter that live in my house and every morning I could wake up and ask them what my dreams mean.
I had this really graphic dream of my boyfriend having sex with one of my friends sister..it was horrible as I saw every detail n they didn evn try hiding or stopping..they were doing all these disgusting things..hurts me jus thnkn bout it.woke up soo mad @him..:(
I’m nine months pregnant now and yet my dreams are not getting any better. . These dreams he is telling me how he as been cheating and how dumb I am for playing step mom to his son. I couldn’t do nothing but cry then in the dream he explain how he’s been having sex wit his ex. When I awaken I started crying and once again explained the dream to him. Am I really insecure or are they really trying to tell me something or . .. Could it be the pregnancy? ? Help
My boyfriend and I have been together nearly two years and have a child together (I got pregnant nearly right away, but we both had decided to stay together before we found out), but since I gave birth, I have been having dreams of him cheating on me, and either I walk in on him, or he tells me, and I always wake up crying and angry. I know that he’s not cheating on me, and it’s probably my own insecurities with the extra baby weight, and the stress of having a baby before we really got to know each other, but I would appreciate any other feedback. Thanks!
I have been with my bf for four yrs now and in those four years the first two he cheated on me with my friend and an ex we talked I forgave him and we moved on. But I have since then constantly checked his phone bill e mail everything but had sensed he had stopped so eventually stopped checking n once in a while will check his cell phone but I am constantly having dreams he’s cheating and when I tell him he says there just dreams n that he loves me and there not true. Although he is right I feel like there’s a possibility they could be true n I don’t know what to do.
my partner and i have been together for almost a yr and we are 5 months pregnant and i have been dreaming of him cheating with different girls he has never cheated on me before.. I dont know what to do i just want it to stop please help me…. I wake up crying all the time it really upsets and hurts me… Ive never been so happy with some one in my life…. And he says he would never cheat…. I do trust him so i dont see it being a issue with trust… How can i stop theses night mares?
had this dream just this morning that i was suspecting my bf was doing stuff with this girl. in my dream i told him to pick and he chose her and said he hates me and that im a mean person, blah blah. i couldn’t believe it and i was crying really hard in my dream. next thing i know i wake up to my bf by my bed asking what is wrong and at that second i realize i was panting/crying and started bawling for a second before catching reality. he works nights and we were watching a movie in the morning but we feel asleep and i went to the room and he was still asleep on couch. he told me he woke up feeling weird about something and heard me make noises. and then in the bathroom he heard me make crying noises and at first thought i was joking so that made him ask me what was wrong…idk but thought this is weird!! i know its about my insecurities from when i found out 3 months ago that he did cheat on me but it was also mixed with my last ex bf choosing another girl over me and not wanting me anymore. so i must be afraid that is gonna happen again?
I keep having a reoccurring dream about my boyfriend cheating on me. We have been together for 4 years and for the first 1 we were in college living in different towns and both had cheated on each other (mine a few drunk nights with a co-worker, his cheating was a more often and more frequent). We know live together and are expecting. My dreams are always different, in a different place, with different girls (no one that I know) but the endings are always the same, he cheats on me and then is a complete jerk to me when I confront him. Its a dream where you feel like your screaming to wake up and you can’t. I’m always hysterical and crying at the end of the dream and then I wake up the same way.
Lmao! I’m linking this page to many. Goes to show how crazy women are. I especially like lisa’s comment. I hope you girls solve your insecurities soon, they are really holding you back as far as relationships go.
I had a dream last night that my partner was having sex with this girl in front of me, its quite disturbing as it was a foreign girl he was doing it with and he says he doesnt like them. We have trust issues in our relationship and hes cheated on me before. Im just so sacred! Cant eat sleep i dont know how to feel! Help.
I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I would have to say I’ve had at least ten. They hurt so bad, especially when I wake up I feel so mad! In all of these dreams, the other girl is normally better looking and he tries to get us to have a three way. In real life, he tells me all he wants is me. In my dreams I catch him having sex with other women. In real life, he says he would never cheat on me. These dreams are making me so ill…I always have to discuss them with him… but each time I have one, I’m mad all over again. I hate these dreams… they are ruining my life!
The first couple times I had bad dreams about my boyfriend were fairly simple – we would be talking and he would be really mean to me, act like a total jerk around me, etc. But lately my dreams have been far worse! I purposely try to forget them but I vaguely remember one of them being that my boyfriend told all his mates that he wanted to get with my cousin (who in reality was up for my birthday). She’s really pretty but I know my boyfriend would NEVER do that, it’s definitely not like him to cheat at all! Last night I dreamt that for some reason my group of friends and I had to pretend he was dating a friend of ours for a week while I went away, when I came back we were flirting and kissing and fooling around on the bed when he slips out something about how since she was his pretend girlfriend while I was away he made her give him a handjob. Naturally I was furious and went off at him but he was all like ‘what’s the big deal?’ Whenever I wake up from dreams I realize straight away that they’re not real. The cousin one – happened to be the night I slept over my boyfriends, I woke up crying! The one I had last night was after spending a great time with him and other friends last night and I woke up so angry I was punching my bedsheets. I always seem to have bad dreams after having the best time with him. I hate it so much, it feels so real and hurts so much but I KNOW, I really know he would never do these things to me. 🙁
Last night, I had a dream my boyfriend had a “thing” for another girl. He was paying for her stuff right in front of me.. & one morning (in my dream) ye didn’t send me a goodmorning text, but was instead talking to her all morning & he was being so Flirty with her, right in front of me, yet I never saw them kiss or anything. I’m still shaken up because I’ve been cheated on & played many times. It hurts. Even in dreams. What does this dream mean??
I DREAM EVERYDAY THAT MY BOYFRIEND LEAVES MEEH FOR ANOTHER GIRL. AND IF I WERE TO CATCH HIM IN MY DREAMS HE JUS LAUGHS AT MEEH. I WAKE UP SCARED AND MAD AT HIM..I DONT KNOW WHY I ALWAYS DREAM LIKE THIS. I DONT WANT TO LOSE HIM BECAUSE I LOVE HIM AND IM VERY HAPPY WITH HIM..SOMEONE PLS TELL MEEH WHY I KEEP DREAMING LIKE THIS
I have dreams like this about me and my boyfriend of two years. I truly love him but every night I’ve had the same type of dream that involves a new girl everytime. In the dreams he thinks it’s funny that I caught him and says he doesn’t care. When I tell him about the dreams in real life he always tells me its never going to happen and I will never lose him bc he loves me and wants to be with me and only me. I believe him then I have another dream that has a new storyline but different girl and a new way I catch them. I just really want these dreams to stop so I continue a good and healthy relationship with him.
Hello I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half he is so lovely would never hurt or upset anyone and I know he would never cheat on me. I don’t know whether it’s because I’m a very insecure jelous person but I constantly have dreams he is cheating on me and I break up with him but he never wants me back. Last night I had a dream I caught him having sex with my bestfriend and broke up with him but again he didn’t want me back but we always carry on kissing and having sex. These dreams really bother me!!! There must be something in my subconscious that tells me he likes her!
I keep dreaming that my boyfriend of 1 year is texting other people, i wake up and it is so realistic which makes me ask him if i can go on his phone, he then obivously thinks that i dont trust him.
Our relationship hjas recently broken down due to us being stressed, it felt as though it was coming back together and now this has happened. What does this mean?
So I’ve been with my boyfriend about 4 months now, and all of a sudden I’ve started having dreams about him being with his ex girlfriends, there’s not exactly doing anything in the dream but there ‘flirting’ these have been happening for about a week now and there beginning to bug me,please reply thanks
Me and my partner recently broke up.we were dating for 1 year and 4 months. I’ve caught him numerous time cheating on me.but still gave him chances to see if he really changed. But now we are busy sorting things out,but I’ve been having dreams that his cheating on me with th firend we recently met. Even tho we over and sorting thins out.what does that mean? Please please help me! 🙁
My bf and I both had the same dream about us sleeping with different ppl.I dreamed that he slept with another girl n he dreamed that I slept with a other girl :-(. we so happy. I dont know what it means…
oh nd I wake up very upset wit him nd wont let him touch me for a while. I wont even say I love you back to him
1). I had a dream where my boyfriend was with my mother nd my uncle. I was at my cousins house lookin for somethin. Then i look out the window and My boyfriend came over. my mom said to my BF “yea you were there till 10.30 or so”. My uncle says ” wow thats crazy she would do that”. My BF says yea i cant believe she would do that. Here i am standing right next to him. I was thinkin that he was talkin bout my cousin. So i turn around and slap him and said wut the fuck!
Wut does this mean?
2). I had another dream where i was at another town. My BF comes to get me in a pickup truck. I noticed a strange cryin women all over him. I pulled her away nd pushed her through the window in the back to the bed of the truck. I sat in the passenger seat nd yelled at him. I said wut the fuck is this shit!. He didnt reply. I seen this blanket nd said her take your guys nasty jig blanket! I threw it in his face. He said thats not mine! So i threw in the back wit the women who is still cryin but now trying to get in. Closed the window on her fingers. I didnt care. Turned around and said to him just pull over. Went to a conveinent store. He went inside. I sat in the back staring at the women. My BF and i went inside the truck. I asked him ” dont yu love me?”… i woke up
Please tell me wut this means
I have on and off dreams of my boyfriend, my soon to be fiance, not necessarily cheating on me, but liking different friends of mine. Each dream is a different girlfriend of mine, they are not close friends, but girls I keep in touch with on Facebook. They are very specific dreams where my boyfriend gets obsessed with one of my friends, ignores me, and is practically chasing my friend down, like a single man that won’t give up. Ugghh, it’s driving me nuts, and it’s a different friend of mine each time. I don’t even want to bring him around these friends of mine in fear that he will really start liking them!
by the way im like a six times a week kinda person. If you get what im saying. Does he really have a reason to cheat?
MEN DON’T NEED A REASON TO CHEAT, THEY DO IT BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH IT, AND BECAUSE A WOMEN IS WILLING TO ENGAGE. NO MATTER HOW PRETTY YOU ARE OR HOW MUCH SEX YOU GIVE, A MAN STILL WILL CHEAT.
Lastnight I had a dream where my fiance starting sleeping with his friend, shes an indian woman and I was standing outside with two of my friends on the other side of the window and he picked her up and started having sex with her against the wall/window. I went in there when they were done took all my stuff and left. My boyfriend started chasing me telling me she was a slut and it meant nothing. I dont know why but i went back to the room with him to talk. I’m not that type of girl. Cheating is cheating if it happens to me I’m done. I don’t know if its the hate that I have towards this girl now but in my dream she literally had a man’s chest and had a really hary stomach. She is fat and not that attractive in real like. I have been told by many people that I am extremely beautiful, and I could have any guy. I have been thinking about this dream all day and comparing myself to her. What do i do?
Your dumb to let them hang out anyways KAG. You really think he doesn’t do stuff with his EX that WANTs him back?? Um yea break that off real soon before you walk in on something you don’t wanna see.
ive had a dream on a few occasions when my boyfriend and his ex are back together and they start saying all these hurtful things to me and then his ex and another of his former chick friends start hitting me and punching me. i think its because they both blame me for him breaking up with his ex and not seeing his friend anymore but it wasnt my fault please help because they make me really distressed and i normally wake up crying. The two same girls are always in my dreams its like there haunting me. 🙁
Yesterday my bf hung out with his ex girlfriend and another friend. This girl cheated on him and wants him back and they hang out every few months. I hardly worried while I was awake but once I fell asleep I had a dream that he was holding her from behind really close with his arms around her. It really freaked me out because I woke up really upset at him. Do you guys think this dream means that I am upset about them hanging out?
i had a dream my boyfreind of almost 3 yrs and i were going to have a threesome with another girl. im straight bt in the dream i wasnt after he and i had sex and it was the other girls turn i told him i cant do it i cant watch him have sex with another girl n he said oh well n did then i woke up angry lol
I had the same dream last night except I woke up a heap of times and when I went back to sleep I kept having it from the start again.. I woke up angry and upset each time and was so worried I even ran to his car when he got home to check.. I told him about it which was the best thing I could do and he told me it would never happen and I researched it and it just says that I’m insecure about the way I look and how attractive I am which could be true.. hope I never have that dream
again cos seriously it hurt so much!!
I keep having these dreams that my boyfriend who is now my baby father is cheating on me and telling me how he want to do old friends of his(like his ex). When I wake I have a really rude attitude and I explain the dream detail by detail, but as usual he denies it. I cant really trust him like I want to because of these dreams but yet he does things that makes me think my dreams are true. I have these dreams constantly over. What does that mean? His he really cheating on me, or is my dreams misleading me. I fight or try to fight but it doesnt change a thing. Is my trust gone and I needto break it off, but I.m pregnant with my first child! I give him sex when he wants it.. Im so confused!
Hello, Ive been with this guy for almost 9 months ive been having these dreams for the past 6 months. These dreams invole him cheating on me with different women. Every night its always a different girl. Ive had ones about my best friend and him, friends from school and him, random girls and him. They wont stop! i wanna say im looking for advise or an answer but from reading all these none of us do. So just to help you all and save all the geussing and wondering just everytime you have a bad dream wake him up (texting, calling, or if his right there sleeping with you wake him up) it doesnt matter how tired he is he’ll always comfert you. I always wake up my man and the minute he talk to me he comferts me and make me feel like why was i even worried. If their a good guy they will always make it better until your feeling completely safe and stasfied. But all this is from what ive been through i just want to let you all know that.
thanx I will try this next tyme I have a dream like that
I av a long distance relationship i recently dreamnt tht ma bf is naked with one of ma relatives in bed and i just walked by i had a question to ask n i asked n just passed thm lyk nothing happened. Pls advice
Ive had the same type of dream 3 times now. All of which my boyfriend is flirting with another girl right in front of me. The most recent one I had, last night, it was the same thing except I actually know the girl and am friends with her. Why her of all ppl, idk. I trust him completely. Any idea as to why I would dream this shit??
I have this dream about me making out with my one of my close friends boyfriends, in my dream he always says I’m his bit on the side. What does this mean for me ? Me being the other women in this case.
i keep dreaming my boyfriend of 1 year is cheating with his ex shag m8…the girl has shown interest numerous times to be with him he says he would never cheat but i suspect they did something and his just not telling me..Ive had these dream over 2 months now and its every day
I would end it if it bothers you on a daily basis. If she hits on him then he shouldn’t see him anymore. He would feel the same way if the roles were reversed and its not right for you to live in fear.
I have been with my boyfriend on and off for about 5 years. I have first hand experienced him cheating on me; but we have been so much better for the past year. & tonight i had a dream about him cheating on me with another girl, and she was pregnant and far enough along to be super noticeable and she said it was his child ! I dunno if it’s my inscuritys or If I should be worried about something ? HELP !
It’s your insecurities. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 3 years, but during our first year of dating my boyfriend went out for the night and ended up kissing another woman, he told me what happened after a couple weeks but I was still really hurt. Even though I know he was very intoxicated and deep down we both know it’s a mistake…after more than 2 years I am still bothered by it. I have dreams of him with other women, mostly his ex all the time. It’s because I did loose trust for him and I know he did in fact cheat on me once…so it’s just an insecurity.
I seriously need some advice for this. My boyfriend of practically 2yrs in my dreams is always seen with another girl. I’d suppose this would be so because it happens in life outside of my dreams. He is friends with a lot of girls. Which is odd because when we met he was always just with guy friends. Fancy that every girl he hangs around with is a legit whore. Yet when I continue to tell him this fact he says “Hahaha oh its just because you don’t like them” which is very true. Anyway. Back to the dream. In every dream he’s around a different girl. Just walking. Laughing and talking. But it progresses. He begins to hold hands with them. And flirt ridiculously with them. (It truly feels like he does this outside of the dream too) but before things can always get more serious betweenhe and his whore friends, I always tend to appear in the dream and catch him in the act. U’d assume he’d stop what he’s doing. But he just continues. So in my dream I get mad. Usually flip him off and walk away. Waking up absolutely HATING him. Idk wat to do. We broke up bcuz of jealousy once b4. But honestly I’m annoyed. Is he cheating? Has he? I know I’m insecure. But this doesn’t sound like a good boyfriend to me anymore. What do I do!?
If there was a positive cheating already then your relationship isn’t going to work unless you can put it behind you. Even more I think he should have more respect for you and not be hanging out with girls if he has a girlfriend. He should respect you as much as much as he think you should respect him. I don’t think he would like it you were hanging out with a bunch of guys. Other than that, are you happy? Or do you feel content? Answer those questions then I think you will know what you want to do.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. And I have had recurring dreams of him cheating on me. First with a girl a could not stand. Then ones with some of his ex’s. I had one last night that we went on vacation with his dad and his dads girlfriend and their daughter who my boyfriend used to date. In the dream he told me he loved her but still loved me. And then the second dream I had was that he slit his wrists and I found him still in the bathtub all bloody. What do you think these mean? I love him to death. And he tells me all the time that he loves me. And that he has never loved someone as much as me. And he used to sleep around a lot before I met him. And when we started going out he completely changed. Am I just being insecure and paranoid? Please help!
My fiance was the same way. He completely changed around for me. He tells me he loves me with all his heart but there is still that little part in the back of my mind that tells me not to trust him with everything. We’ve been through a lot of drama together. I guess all you can do is trust him or it will never work because of so much insecurties. Discuss your dreams with him, tell him how it makes you feel. I think if his attitude is weird and frustrated about it then he’s hiding something (1st time) or he’s just tired of hearing that you don’t trust him (repeatedly).
I keep having the same dream but with different people. My first dream was with his ex gf and we have been talking about it. Now, however, Ive been dreaming about him with my roommate and other friends that he hasnt even met…. I dont know what to do and how to get them to stop. It seems like they keep getting worse. I know I have a hard time rusting people already but it feels like I will never be able to trust anyone
I have been having dreams about my boyfriend cheating on me for about a month now first one was that he came home and started telling me about this girl he just had sex with and we started argueing I told him to stop cheating on me and he said that he would never stop. It freaked me out so I talked to him about it and he just laughed at me telling me I was crazy. Then lastnight I had another dream of him cheating except this time he brought the girl to the house and was talking about how he wanted her and not me I told him to stop and he said no he was going to find the girl of his dreams and get rid of me! I woke up so hurt and started crying! I dont know what this means? I really want to know I have never had dreams like this!
ive only been with my boyfriend for a short amount of time and i am already pregnant. he says hes happy and wants the baby. but every night i dream that he is having sex with my best friend behind my back, and every morning i wake up crying, it all feels so real. is this normal or what?
oh i should add that there is a 6 year age gap between me and my boyfriend.
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Last time i dreamt that i saw my boyfriend kissing a girl.and a friend of my boyfriend asked me if am getting jealous while seeing them kissing..what does that mean?
Have had numerous dreams of my guy and my best friend falling in love… it’s like its not about the sex but they are sitting telling me that they are in love and have been for ages…. so weird and creepy! also very upsetting puts ideas in my head… well i don’t know if the dream means anything, I cant say i trust 100% that there has been the odd one or two things in real life that have set me off but no hard evidence and then most of the time everything’s great! Dont know if it’s just my insecurities and trust issues coming out..??? Am I paranoid??? Or Right???
I keep having the same dream of my boy of 6 years cheating on me with an old friend whom he was with before he met me,in my dreams I’m always around n I go confront him n he’s like oh it was nothing forget it I love u,like he dosent hav a care in the world.my paretner is not like that at all he is the biggest softie.so what does this dream mean I have it at least once a month:(
continuing from that dream i then walked down a long country dirt road on a beautiful sunny day. i could see the high grass and little ponds just like it looked while i was live in the country and the sky was blue with white puffy clouds doting the sky i was just think of what i should do and what it would be like if i was single again, then i came up to this house (in reality i had visited while playing softball she was on my team a rich girl had lived there with rain-dear yes actual rain dear) n-e-ways she didn’t live there anymore some grumpy older guy was living there telling me to get off his land and i started to yell back at him and then he started chasing me as i turn around and staring running i passed a play-set and there was my 3 years son (he’s my favorite i have to say) just waiting for me to chase him and play on the play-set. then i woke up and started crying. and told my boyfriend about the dream. i didn’t get much of a reaction from him but him assuring me he was not talk or cheating on me. i normally don’t remember my dreams so vividly but this felt sooooo real. and it’s been on my mind all day.
i had a dream this morning that my boyfriend of 4 years was talking to another girl named mary and it had be going on for months and he decided to tell me because he wanted us to be over and wanted to be with her because he just didn’t want to deal with all the drama of having children(yes it different sH*t everyday) we have 4 kids and they would have none. he even gave me her phone number 444-5424. but i couldn’t dial it and then he took off in a black car with tinted windows. he has in awake life had been talking with other girls and i did confront him and he denies he did anything bad. i usually find out about them within a week or so. is this just a fear i have of losing him or is it a combination of both reality and my worst fears.
i keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend. me and him have been together for 9 months and i just started having these dreams. i keep comparing myself to her. because they are both in high school and go to the same school, she is blond, and actor, and a modeler….. i dont know what to do. someone please tell me what it means!!!
Ughhhh!!! I keep having the same dream my boyfriend and his x flirting and kissing…. now, I can’t help it but I’m always comparing myself to her ….it really sux
I been having dreams of my boyfriend making love to his ex. this went on 4 5 years.Turns out I found out he’d been lying to me. He told me she was just a human being, like a neighbor. He was taking her out to wedding invitations, dinners, and spending quality time together quite often. They both don’t work, they’d spend the whole day together watching movies etc.. to top things off he’d compare me to her. saying things like, she has friends shes slim, and good looking.
her name is carla and because of her I lost my job, as well as a lot of money. to top things off her boyfriend Benoit accepts this. I am the idiot supposedly. she beat me last year out of jealousy, all while my boyfriend watched. my boyfriend, benoit and carla all had turns assaulting me. All for her and his lies.
Ive been having dreams about my boyfriend of over 3 years cheating on me with his ex girlfriend. The dreams are very stressful and I always wake up crying, hurt and really upset. The reason for the dreams is definetly because of insecurities because I am always comparing myself to her. I am a heavier woman and she is tall and thin. He always tells me he loves me more than he ever loved her and he would never even go back with her(even of me and him broke up). I do believe him and he would never cheat on me or leave me for another woman. Unforchunately l, insecurities get the best of us! Its horrible!
Hello all. I just wanted to say… I had a dream that I walked in my room and my husband was cheating on me with a fat blonde chick. I was mad grabbing her and it felt as though I couldn’t even hit her like I was really weak for some reason. well about two weeks ago my husband confessed that he did Cheat on me with a fat blonde girl but I had this dream like 3 months ago and I told him and he laughed, he didn’t even confess then. hmmm so It is like my dream was trying to give me hints. it was sooooo wierd!
i had this dream that my boyfriend of over a year who is entering the navy is cheating on me. like with everygirl i talk to including my best friends. i broke up with him in the dream and woke up thinking we were done. it was horrific. what do i take from this??
hey my fiance is in the navy it will all work out in the end its hard to know that they deploy for long periods of time and that they have the chances but if he truly loves u he wont and the greaest part about being a navy wife is when u have a family like me and him its a lil backwords lol kid first then marriage but its so worth it and especially when they call u jsut to say they love u its great trust in him
Same here. My fiance is in the marines and is in the school and a couple of nights ago i had a dream he brought me there and i was like where is the girl who was flirting with you(real life) and he said over there and i started togo over to her he tried to stop me. I went up to her said did she know him and she said yea they go out. I said you swear etc. So i broke uo with him. Idk if its me hating that he is so far away and idk what he is doing. Then, a few hours ago i had another dream. He was staying with me and my mom and he was upset that he couldnt fo through my phone. So he tried to make himself throw up in our bathroom and i walked in there mad because it was making my mom uncomfortable and we started physically fighting(he is not of type of guy to abuse woman he is real sweet and respects me his mother and the woman on his familyside and ive witnessed it; he is totally against cheating he rather tell me first and totally against abuse. Why did i have these dreams?????;
I’ve had similar situations where my boyfriend tells me his cheating or just blerts out that he wants someone else.
This is because we are insecure, and don’t trust them like we used too. It’s best to talk to them, and try not to let your dreams fuel your insecurity, because it can create a void between the both of you that probably was never mention to be there. You make your own reality, so talk to him and if you truely feel he really is cheatig with hard evidence then end the relationship.
i am going through this right now. Here are the signs i noticed: total lack of interest in me and our kids. He grew meaner and meaner. Yelling at us for no reason. would shy away from me when i tried to hug him. withdrew more and more form everything to do with us. Didn’t want to talk or watch a movie (we used to watch funny movies together). He spent all his time on line or playing video games and if he had to do something else, was very agitated (for example my children were in rainbow singers and he was upset that he had to go to their concert). most important, distance. he was never really there his mind was else where, and the more i noticed it and tried to talk to him, the more he pulled further and further away.Next, more obvious things. Getting up in the middle of the night to talk to someone on the phone or computer. Money that comes up missing unexplainable trying to hide a cell phone or on line accounts trying to hide what they were just doing also acting guilty. hope this helps you, trust me i know what you are going through I knew he was cheating for at least 6 weeks to 3 months prior, i just had to prove it. it is very painful. stay strong!
Okay, so i had this dream that my very faithful boyfriend, My best friend, and i went on a camping trip together. In my dream i fell asleep, then woke up and those two were rolling around and making out. This dream left me 100% scarred and i don’t know how to handle it! Someone help me interpret this please!
You should ask your girlfriend if she wants a three-way. See what her reaction is and look for anything that doesn’t look like a genuine rejection. (watch for a split-second smile, or other clues that may indicate if she does in fact desire your man). For your boyfriend do the opposite. Start up a conversation about how your girlfriend doesn’t like him . . . even despises something about him and watch if he makes any little smiles while you tell him. If he shows a smirk when he hears her disgust it may indicate he knows something different.
This is good advice.
MJ, l had a same dream as well. Take Garson’s advice it works. Well I did not suspect anything and my interpretation was that I needed to learn to trust him. But it turned out that I was wrong. Two days later I confronted him about it again and he lied but was so lucky because just a few minutes later the lady called. To my surprise, he was cheating on me all this time. All i can say is pray about it and ask for revelation.
All you’ll succeed in doing is planting a seed in your girlfriends head and get her to think about your man sexually. As for your man, telling him she hates him is dumb. It’s a mans natural instinct to get pretty girls to like them. If you tell him she hates him, he’s going to go out of his way to impress her and win her favor. So, now you’ve got her wanting him and him wanting to impress her all because of YOU! Bad advice! Use your head!
Wow that idea is pretty genius… you must work with many relationship issues.
i dream that my boyfriend and my best friend are cheating behind my back- me and my boyfriend are having troubles and my best friend is georgous so i know its just insecure but i cant stop them…. i wake up hating them both…………
i had pretty much the same dream except he was cheating with my best friend and other girls from school. i still dont know what to take from this, but tell him about your dream and how upset it made you, and be reasured that he loves you. that helped me a little.
I have been having the same dream as well. I was in my room and walked to the livingroom and same them both having sex on the couch. I was completly shocked and hurt. When I couldn’t look at neither of them the same way as the day went by. I can’t get the dream out of my head, this really bothers me. I would really help if someone can tell me why am I having these dreams. This is not the first time I have a dream of both of them having sex/kissing.
I feel the exact same way. I live with my boyfriend and my best friend and I keep having these dreams where I catch them together. I give him another chance to stay away from her, but he always choses to go back to her. Waking up, I can’t get away from either of them. And when I try to explain what happened in my dream and how hurt it made me feel, they both tell me it would never happen, but I keep having the dreams. I think I know why it happens, becuz I have issues with trusting people, but I don’t know what to do about it. I just want the dreams, and how they make me feel when I wake up, to go away.
my boyfriend wouldn’t reassure me, he would call me silly and tell me to stop being obsessed, ive told him before..
I feel that sometimes! My nest friend & my boyfriend gets along so well! That’s great but at times I Thu.k they get along a .little ‘too well!’ I asked them both if they be flirtting. My boy friend said no & my nest friend said yes! WTF!
My “best friend” happens to be my boyfriends best friend too and it seems like he’s always WAY more excited to see her and to hang around her than me. And in my dream, we were all in one room and he kissed her right in front of me. It broke my heart because sometimes I feel like I come second place and I can’t talk to her about it because she would probably just tell him everything….So I kinda have no best friend….
That’s not good. You should come first for the both of them and you should be able to tell your best friend everything and they shouldn’t say something or to be honest that’s not a best friend and to be truthful is he wants to hang out with her more then you then he probably does want to be with her more then you as well if it’s like that then you should leave both of them and have a great single party life !!
i had a dream that my boyfriend slept with this woman who is a customer at my job??? Can someone tell me what that is about PLEASE??? Plus i can’t stand this woman at all.
“Can someone tell me what that is about PLEASE???” Are you kidding me?! All of you are crazy!!!! It’s nothing more than your own insecurities getting the better of you in your subconscious mind. It’s not REAL!!! It’s just YOUR hang up. So, grow the up and get over it!
maybe u do think this is crazy, but it cant just be coincidence that since my boyfriend has started going to his pals house, non stop?, ive started having more and more nightmares about the girls he talks to. we’ve been together for 2 years, and im afraid to say that he has changed, not me. and he has met up with girls when he’s with his pals, flirted with them…and then tried to hide the fact he even saw them…when i know that he has. so yes, this is suspicious and yes, my dreams get worse. i cant leave him, i just want the old him back.
The dreams ARE nothing but our insecurities. I just woke up from a “cheating dream” and I looked up the meaning and symbols on there and it just proved that we are insecure about the relationship, things changed in our relationship that we feel aren’t right. I know for sure my boyfriend isn’t cheating he just works a lot and since we don’t have much time to talk I feel bad about it and my dreams point out he’s cheating, meaning that what I would think, worse case scenario. When in reality it’s just me not use to his new changes.
My boyfriend and i have been together for about a month, so it’s pretty new. In my dream, he told me that he had to be honest with me, and that the whole time we’ve been together he’s been sleeping with a girl called Sid who works at a surf shop (my boyfriend is a surfie). I didn’t know what to say to him but i was so hurt and he told me he was sorry for it happening, she meant nothing to him and that he was in love with me. I woke up from the dream crying and felt physically ill, it seriously scared me and i felt really hurt by it. I text him about it as soon as it happened and he promised me he’d never ever ever cheat on me, and I believe him.
Please interpret this for me, it’d be much appreciated.
Having dreams about your significant other cheating can also mean that you have a deeply-rooted trust issue. You may have had trust issues in the past, feelings of abandonment might be stemming from past relationships.
Don’t stress about your boyfriend cheating on you now; it was good you talked to him about it, but just know that your dream is not a premonition or a precursor to future events; it is simply a root of your own insecurities. I’d go to counseling and talk about why your may be feeling so insecure? It really helps me:) Good luck.