In giving the unlit candles to your deceased husband, you may be seeking to connect with him or to honor his memory. Candles are often used in religious or spiritual contexts to symbolize the presence of the divine or to honor the memory of loved ones. Your husband’s presence in the dream may represent a desire for his guidance or support in your waking life.

The unlit candles could represent a lack of clarity or understanding in your waking life. You may be seeking to shed light on something that is currently unclear or hidden from view. This could be related to a current situation or a past event that you are trying to make sense of.

In waking life, take time to reflect on any areas where you may be seeking clarity or illumination. Seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals to help shed light on the situation. Remember, just as the candles in your dream have the potential to illuminate the darkness, you have the power to bring clarity and understanding to your life. Trust in your intuition and inner wisdom to guide you towards the solutions and insights you need.

It means you need to become closer to God spiritually for you to be closer to your Dad and heaven and wealth(God represents 3 -father, son, Holy Ghost, and spirituality, gold represents wealth and God) your Dad being passed and not given them to you is the other indication about once you have achieved this you will be more united. Perhaps your love for him (and pain of him passing) will guide you to being more open the God and united with him.