Seeing a midwife in a dream means that you are working hard and struggling for your own gains and family with self-sacrifice; justifying your actions as self-betterment only.
When you dream about being a birth patient receiving care from a midwife, dreaming may signify a pregnancy or birth of a child. Similarly, if the midwife is giving care to someone else that you typically take care of, then it points to aspects of yourself that are needing looking after and attention. The important thing is to focus the spotlight back onto yourself before you are ready and able to assist others.