Seeing yourself choking another person in your dream is quite formidable and horrendous sight. This act of aggression and violence does not necessarily mean that you want to choke someone during your awake self. Dreaming that you are choking someone else insinuates of your desire to have something not be revealed or suppressing the other person from doing something. If you have frequent dreams of choking another, it’s best to let your emotions and thoughts be known before anything of this nature happens. Talk to someone that you can trust.
I have dreamed about strangling women in my dreams. When I do it feels like I am squeezing clay between my fingers. I also wake to an undesired erection. Not sure whatbthis means, but it has left me on edge since.